Playing With Others Showed Me My Own Timing

Alone in a room, I sounded great.
I was, of course, grading myself.

Then I played with other people.

And there it was —
I rushed the fast parts,
dragged the hard ones,
all the flaws I couldn’t hear solo.

The band was a mirror
I couldn’t argue with.

It stung a little.
It also made me better, fast,
because now I could hear what to fix.

I started seeking out players better than me.
They made my weaknesses audible.

You learn your real timing
in the company of others.

– Serguey Asael Shinder

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